Perspective Matters

Nov 24, 2024

I’ve been mentally crafting this post on how perspective has been shaping my behavior and overall sense of well-being for quite some time now.  With Thanksgiving upon us, it seems like the right time to share it.  

I developed a slight tremor in my right hand a few years ago, but really didn’t think anything of it.   In isolation, it didn’t seem like a big deal.  However, as time passed and other concerns started to arise, I scheduled an appointment with my primary care doctor.  This led to more referrals and appointments, and finally, after having a DatScan and MRI this summer, my suspicions were confirmed – Parkinson’s Disease.

Based on my medical history and the timeline of symptoms, the neurologist believes that there is a good chance I’ve had this for quite some time – and accordingly, means the disease is most likely progressing at a slow rate.  And thanks to my diet, exercise regimen, and high activity level, the only change/ intervention needed now is medication – which has been very helpful.

For me, this adventure has been a giant exercise in relinquishing control and adjusting my perspective.  As I talk about frequently, we all have gifts and challenges.  And if this is my challenge at this stage of life, so be it.  I can’t control the disease – but take great comfort in controlling what I am able: specifically, my focus, attitude, outlook and behaviors.

This season I’m thankful for many things – answers to my health problems, time to digest the diagnosis, effective medication, slow disease progression, supportive family, friends, and followers – and ultimately, my faith.  Over this next holiday week, I hope you can see all the gifts hidden among the challenges in your life – because I believe the more we look for and identify our blessings, the more apparent and abundant they become.

Happy Thanksgiving.

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